Posts Tagged ‘problem solving’

Are Clawing Desperately At The Door Of Hope? Read On!

Saturday, September 4th, 2010

Yes, I know a lot of thought has been applied to how the spiritual side of problem solving with Cosmic Ordering and that it can be uplifting, etc, etc … yawn, yawn. Try telling that to the mother of a sick child or the son of a dying parent.

The ways of nature are always puzzling! When we encounter grief and pain we wonder how nature can treat us so callously and without pity! How can you console a grieving person that this is the way it is meant to be?

The urge to grieve and mourn when disaster occurs is as if there is some great power that forces us to lament. This must be true as most of us would have experienced it when, in moments of grief, we could not come out of the despair however relentlessly we tried.

When the person closest to us suffers and is in great pain, this is the only thing that gains our attention and in such moments we would readily swap the pain or go to any lengths to have a few seconds of respite with our beloved in their final moments. But why wait for that to happen, right now is the time to put Cosmic Ordering into use … not when it’s too late!

How precious every second we spend with our dear ones is. We should take real pleasure in every waking moment and pray for their continued state of health. You will gain nothing by expressing your love after their time; instead express your feelings when they are alive and healthy. Only when you fill your thoughts and actions with love will you feel it return in multitude and embrace you and your family. Start using Cosmic Ordering today, now … not when it’s too late!

Negative feelings of anger and bitterness will only serve to attract similar feelings towards you. Never let your mind dwell on depressing or bitter thoughts. Think of positive happenings and happy feelings and utilise the power of your mind more and more with each day. Look forward to your day with joy. Manifest even more abundance and joy while you are happy, see how it will flow to you in an accelerated form when you do so. Don’t leave it until you are desperate, as all you will attract is even more of the same.

As a child, I recall living in a hut with my mother, as we had no place else to live. I mean, we had just been elevated from living in a field, so this was luxury. I always recall my dear mother saying in her broken English, “Ach, zomsing vill come along, you vill zee.” Mum was the eternal optimist, pity it never rubbed off on me in my earlier years.

What I am saying is, if you are at the depths of despair and hammering at the door of poverty to be let in to a better life, I just think of my mother’s words in broken English: “Ach, zomsing vill come along, you vill zee.”

Being angry or nagging about your dismal state of affairs will gain nothing at all. Instead concentrate on what you wish to become or have happen. You will certainly move on to a better position and start enjoying life as it comes when you put Cosmic Ordering into practice!

Turn your life around from what it is now to what you want it to be when you use power of the mind techniques. The man behind most successful Cosmic Ordering books and audios has ways to help you, click here.

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A Healthy Relationship Requires Good Communication

Wednesday, June 9th, 2010

You realize that you are in a mess. Your relationship has gone to pot and you think you know the reason. Poor communication. You and your partner haven’t been talking and sharing with each other like you used to. No matter what you think the problem may be, it usually boils down to the main issue that one or both of you refuse to discuss whatever is causing the problem.

This lack of communication is what causes the majority of the problems in the early stages of the relationship, and left alone, can grow much worse as the relationship progresses.

So, you realize you have a problem. You decide that you need to start communicating with each other. How are you going to do that?

The reason many people seek help in communicating is because too often, talking becomes a full blown fight with screaming, yelling and name calling. The main thing that a counselor does is acts as referee, not allowing things to get out of control.

You go to the counselor and they don’t say much, just sit and listen to you talk. They have done more for you than you may realize. They have provided an environment that is conducive to communication.

There is a time and place for a counselor to make suggestions and offer advice. These can be helpful to both persons in the partnership, and can speed up the healing process. But the main job of the counselor is to see that both parties are talking to one another. This alone can save a marriage.

The difficulties you are having may stem from a number of problems. Arguments about money, sex, infidelity, the list could go on for pages and pages. The key to resolving these conflicts is to talk them through.

If you refuse to communicate with each other, your relationship is destined for failure. If you want your relationship to last a life time, you have to start talking to each other and keep on talking.

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Identifying Solutions For Sibling Conflicts

Wednesday, May 12th, 2010

Parents with more than one child know that tattling can be an annoying part of childhood. Sibling rivalry can make kids bicker and tell on one another about the most minor of infractions.

One way of dealing with tattling is a method called “passive parenting.”

In passive parenting, parents have to first set ground rules for tattling. Tell your kids when it is OK for someone to tattle, such as when a child is being injured or when a child is being destructive. Let them know that if they tattle about minor things, that they will be the one getting punished.

Here’s what you should do when your child comes to you to complain about their siblings. Listen to the complaint and say something general like, “That’s not very fun,” or “I bet you hate when they do that?” Don’t worry about making suggestions or offering to correct the situation.

If your child persists in tattling, simply repeat your noncommittal statement. They may get frustrated but it will help them to solve their own problems. This method can be effective in many situations.

In other instances, it may be appropriate for your child to have input in setting some rules. For example, as children grow up they enjoy more and more privacy. As a result, they may feel that they don’t want their siblings to enter their rooms without their permission.

In this situation, you and your children can set a rule about bedroom privacy and consequences of breaking it. The rule may be that siblings have to ask permission to enter another’s bedroom. If they don’t, the punishment may be a warning. If they persist it may merit an early bedtime or no dessert.

Sibling rivalry is a part of growing up and all families experience it to some degree. If you teach your child how to handle their own problems constructively, they will be able to use those skills later in life.

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